Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Memories and meaning

To answer helpmate hubbys question these items come from my last relationship. For one thing the guy was from the US, a long, long way away and we met when he was in Iraq. Yeah, talk about cliche. It wasn't the smartest thing to do but it happened. The ring is his, he bought it in Iraq to wear when he took his wedding ring off (told ya it wasn't a smart relationship) and he let me have it when we met (he was going back to his wife) and the broken heart is my half of the pendant I took over to the US to split with him when I visited.

My choice of relationships has sucked up til now but the memories can be pretty damn good.

8 comments:

Wayne C. Rogers said...

I have to ask these two questions. What were you doing in Iraq, and who's the Ex you've been talking about? Almost any woman has to know that when you get involved with a married man, the relationship is one that won't be going anywhere, which can be all right, if that's what both parties want. You just haven't found the right guy, yet.

*BB* said...

I wasn't in Iraq, he was and we met online. He left his wife but got home to find some messed up kids waiting for him. He wimped out on their seperation and got back into his unhappy marriage for her. So I lost out. My first and last lesson taught to me that way.

Wayne C. Rogers said...

Are you doing any personal ads in your neck of the neighborhood (either online or off), advertising for a relationship with a submissive male? If not, this might help. You can put down what you're looking for in a man as well as what you have to offer in the way of Dominance and in a relationship. You sometimes hear from a bunch of idiots, but eventually a few gems will seep through. I know of a couple of Dominant women who live around the United States who have been able to find someone, using this method. You just have to be patient. It sometimes takes several months before you find the right person.

*BB* said...

Oh yeah, tried that and wow slim pickings here. Idiots topping from the bottom, wanting me to wrap them in cling film etc. Pfffffft.

Wayne C. Rogers said...

They wanted you to wrap them in cling film??? Is this like a New Zealand thing or something? Well, if the pickings are slim in Wellington, then you have to move. I don't know if Australia is the answer, but it's certainly bigger than New Zealand. I can see you running an ad in Melbourne and getting replies from ten kaola bears, two kangaroos, and a dingo.

*BB* said...

Well I hope cling film isn't a secret huge international fetish. I prefer to think it was just that one guy. btw the story is getting there and it's AWESOME.

Wayne C. Rogers said...

Tell me, tell me, tell me!!!!!

helpmate hubby said...

Tell me too!!!!!!!! Please!