To answer helpmate hubbys question these items come from my last relationship. For one thing the guy was from the US, a long, long way away and we met when he was in Iraq. Yeah, talk about cliche. It wasn't the smartest thing to do but it happened. The ring is his, he bought it in Iraq to wear when he took his wedding ring off (told ya it wasn't a smart relationship) and he let me have it when we met (he was going back to his wife) and the broken heart is my half of the pendant I took over to the US to split with him when I visited.
My choice of relationships has sucked up til now but the memories can be pretty damn good.